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Top 5 Things You will Learn About Pet Parenting

The whole of my formative years, I was always surrounded by pets—either cats or dogs, domesticated cows etc. When we turned into a nuclear family, we had dogs living with us. So being around pets is not new to me, except I never got involved while raising them. I would just be there when things were beautiful and not when they turned ugly, including pet's nature call or sickness. My mother or sister would always be around to take care of them.  In 2020 when I decided to become a pet parent, what did I choose as my pet?

Because you are precious


While growing up and even for the matter of fact adulting, you are constantly told that you are unworthy of something. This pines you from the bottom of your heart. You want to tell them they do not have the right to treat you like that, and you are uncomfortable with such harsh words spewed at you. And if you are very sensitive to such trolls, then you experience cold flashes and hot flashes, an undefined anxiety and panic which spirals you down to the labyrinth of self pity. 

I am no saint. I have experienced all these when I was a child and also my during my growing years, heck I face such destructive criticism till date. Either people comment on my body weight / shape, or on my nature of being gullible. But now it does not bother me at all. I have stopped accepting validations about me from others. A close friend of mine once told me that I get to choose my battle. It is up to me to educate people on what is right or wrong. To an ignorant, you can never help because they chose to be ignorant. If I persist in teaching every person on my way who body shames me, ridicules me, mocks at me or trolls me, that will only drain my energy.

So next time if some one says meanest things to you, please do mention that you are hurt but even after communicating how you felt about it and the person refuses to budge, I request you to walk out and urge you not to succumb to that dungeon of self pity. That is not your place. Instead, remember below prompt which my colleague and I wrote. 

Hope you like it and I really wish you introspect on these lines. Before hitting the publish button of this blog-post, I would like to mention that sometimes walking away from certain things do not make us coward. It tell us about our bravery to chose our battle for our peace. 


  1. I can completely relate to this. My entire childhood had this phase of body shaming and random comments about how I carried myself.
    It lowered my self-confidence and turned me into a loner. Lately, I have started accepting and treating myself as the most precious, because I have understood how important self love is.

    1. Hi Simran, Kudos to you. Thanks for dropping by :)

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